The future? The present? History?

We have all heard this before. What has happened has happened, what is happening is happening and what is going to happen hasn’t happened yet and none of these things can be changed. Yes we can influence what we will do by altering what we do in the present but that could be construed as being kismet or destiny anyway. Didn’t Newton say in his third law “that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction”.?

Our lives can take on some very strange courses over the years. Some hurt us, others make us stronger, some can cause laughter and sadness and some can transform us completely. However, every twist and turn should make us wiser and fuller as a person.

Should we feel regret? No I do not think so as every second of every hour our actions will influence the balance of life. If something was changed to a perceived better then either another’s circumstances could change for the worse or a terrible conflict could occur.

Recent actions have left me sad and somewhat guilty but I feel these are just the inevitable pitfalls of life and I hope the decisions I have made today will bear happy and comforting fruit in the future. Have I done something terrible? For some they may say yes but I say no. I have acted as honestly and compassionately as I can.

The future will give insight as to whether I chose the right or wrong path but as I said before there is no right or wrong way its just the way. There always seems to be a path through even the most difficult and painful routes our choices take us on.

For anyone I have hurt or upset in recent times I am sincerely sorry but I cannot live my story for another’s fulfillment. If destiny is truly already mapped out for us then this is what was intended and no single person can change that.

I know this all sounds a bit cryptic and nonsensical but I just felt like writing down my thoughts. Those who know will understand and those who don’t will not. I do hope though that my words make some sense to everyone as it is not the characters of the story that matter but the moral content.

We all have a right to happiness but often cannot or do not find it so when it does show up is it wrong to chase after it? Your choice but remember that third law of Newton’s.